The Event:
Today my school held an event at Disneyland. I didn't go. For one, I didn't remember and completely forgot about it. And two, I'm not exactly sure how many of my friends went. But the thing is, I had a pretty good Saturday before I learned of the event that I unkowningly missed.
I'm a bit sad because i didn't go. I was a bit irritated that my friends who went didn't tell me anything about the event that they are planning to go. But you know, it is my fault for not keeping up with different events going on at school and totally missed out on this thing. Part of me is kinda sad because I'm not sure if I will have the opportunity to do so 3rd or 4th year because I'm on rotation.
I hope all goes well and I won't missed winter formal.
And that the thing, part of me feels like I'm always missing out on things. Part of me wonders if there is something wrong with me. Maybe I should have been more social, make more friends, be around stuff that happen. I don't know, maybe I should have been more involved with my school or university. I feel like I don't do enough or get involved enough with my school.
I feel like crap now.
And in all of that misery, I was really enjoying this korean drama show. I had a pretty good dinner too. But to get to the main point, I was binge watch a show tonight and was just skipping through episodes. And you know, I feel like in my most pititful moment, I feel like I was crappy. Maybe all I ever amount to is just binged watching korean drama show, staying up late, and not caring about my responsibilities, and just being a really really lame and crappy person.
I can't believe I feel so lowly about myself because I always felt that I'm missing out on something, the world always seem to have something better going on. I don't know. Have I lived? What is living anyway?
But then again, I did some reflection while rolling around in my bed sheets. I realized this, "You know, you won't miss out on life. Nothing important ever get away."
And that's true. I have been blessed enough, that for all the important event that has portain to my life and all the things that should have happen, I always have found myself there. I have faith, and trust, that things will be okay. Stuff will fall into place. And sure, I did miss out on an amazing events, and I kinda wish I remember and kept tract of the date. I am still grateful to be apart of my university, to have the friends that I have, and to be the student and person that I am. Even in my most unfitted moment as a person/student/everything else, and in the moment when I feel like a creep, a big loser, and just plan not good, I am me. I am still me. No more, and no less me. And its okay, to binged watch, to feel like your missing out, to feel like your a total loser, to feel like you haven't lived, to have emotions all together. It is okay to experience all of that. But I am also thankful, for a saturday night with music, people, night lights, salad, old soda, home-made quacamole, and a korean drama of a gay romance that made my heart squeel.
So, what is it, to recharge one battery? I'm still looking for my source of mana.
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