Today, I had a thought about relationship. I came across a story of a falling apart romance between an androgenous girl and her beautiful girlfriend. Through reading about their story, I feel like I could take away a few point from their relationship.
Through her relationship, it made me think of two special lesson:
#1) Self growth does not stop with a relationship. A investment in yourself is journey of a lifetime regardless of the partners that we share our path with. We can easily lose ourself in the relationship and others, and this will be our downfall. Life is about growth and becoming best version of ourself. We grow by ourself and we grow with each other. I think that should be a better recipe for success.
#2) We cannot blame other for the loss of our relationship. It take takes 2 to build a loving relationship. When it falls apart, it may be impacted by external factors. However, to neglect our responsibility to making it work or putting in effort can also be a short coming. A collapse of a relationship mark a hallmark of a possible unstable core? I honestly don't know and in all honestly, I hope I am spare from it. Love is already very hard as it is right now.
But then again, this is written by someone who hasn't been in a long term relationship. So, just my 2 cents.
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