This is silly. But I been experience something lately. (btw, the picture is not me, I'm not that skinny. But I chose it because it gives an impression of the theme of this post)
One of my closet friend recently has a boyfriend. I am happy for her, but she been hanging out with me less often now. To be honest, we barely talk at all. She rarely replied to my text, and when she does, it takes FOREVER!!! This pissed me off. -__-
I understand that her boyfriend is more important to her now, but it doesn't mean she can just blow all her other friends off!! And the saddest thing is that she and I have been close friend since high school. She was one of my closet friend. She helped me through my depression last year. She taught me how to deal with my emotion and how to be more aware of the world around me.
We talked everyday, and she plays a very important role in my life. But now, I barely have her around anymore. It's like.. our friendship has gone down hill. But don't get me wrong, I am not jealous of her boyfriend or anything like that. I am more than happy they are together, I think he is a great guy. Its just sadden me that my friendship with my close friend is weaken now.
I feel like I am almost .. left behind. I know this scenario is normal. And it should be this way. I am more than happy for her. But I truely miss her as a friend. All the crazy time and thing we did. She taught me a lot and I am appreciated that our friendship has grown so much in the last year .
If now, we grow a little apart, it is okay.. I guess. She has change my life for the better and taught me to be a better person. We will still talk and hang out. But it won't be the same as it use to be anymore because she has a boyfriend. But, I guess it will be okay in time. I will have to get use to this and.. use this opportunity to do soemthing else.. .. yea.
Meanwhile.. as for my weight, I need to get my butt to the gym and eat healther.. iT'S HARD!! :((
I been .. bad. But i ate 2 banana today.. i hope this helps in some way.. but i kinda eat a chocolate bars too.. um.. YEA.. I will start regulating my eating habbit. This is just getting out of hand. I NEED To taking care of my body a little bit better!
Honestly your reactions are totally normal. If I was in your place.. yea I'd say I'm feeling hurt and even jealous cuz I wanna hang out! :)I've been in the same situation but on the opposite end. I was the lousy friend that had the boyfriend and neglected my girlfriend. Yea it's rotten, but we all choose our decisions and it all comes down to that saying -- "to each her own" I'd say give her time to re-adjust to this new feeling and be the good friend that you are.
ReplyDeleteGood friends stick around no matter what --- and she will realize that after she comes down from the clouds that is lol